there are times when you feel like you've just had enough of everything... that you've been so tired of everything you do... sometimes due to problems that you encounter everyday... and the never ending responsibilities that you need to fulfill... or due to tragic events you've experienced, whether it be with a close family member, a friend or a special someone... like losing someone you love thru an accident, thru a third party or just because he/she fell out of love...
well for me, dwelling on the situation will just make you more helpless.. the more you pity yourself, thinking how less fortunate and less worthy you are because of what happened... the more that you sink further and further down until you can no longer recover.
i know it's so easy to say but so hard to do... however, i think this would be the best way. that is to think how fortunate you are compared to other people and to divert your attention to other things. you may engage or join other activities. your situation is actually not the worst of all. there are many other people in this world who are less fortunate and who do not enjoy the things that you already have. to divert your attention, you may go to the gym for work out, go to the mall and watch movies, attend a fund raising project or be a volunteer on a house building project for less fortunate people, hang out with your friends that you haven't seen for so long, etc... there's actually so much to do in this world other than to just think of your problem the whole day.
well as for me, what works best is watching my korean and taiwanese drama dvd collection... i know others would find it so boring or so corny, but i don't really care. though the stories sometimes are quite predictable and simple, they have the ability to enlighten/brighten up my mood. most of them are FEEL GOOD dramas... best suited for depressed/tired people or even for a normal person who just wants relaxation.
there is always this "KILIG" factor in this kdramas, which is what i rarely find in american series. you'll have this "KILIG" feeling just by seeing how the characters gaze at each other, the way they converse with each other, the way they hold hands, the way they hug and kiss... really very different from american/mexican series. i don't know if it's just me, but i feel like the emotions are so real, unlike those american series where i can't see any spark.
you might as well try and see for yourself... :)
~ aja! ~
well for me, dwelling on the situation will just make you more helpless.. the more you pity yourself, thinking how less fortunate and less worthy you are because of what happened... the more that you sink further and further down until you can no longer recover.
i know it's so easy to say but so hard to do... however, i think this would be the best way. that is to think how fortunate you are compared to other people and to divert your attention to other things. you may engage or join other activities. your situation is actually not the worst of all. there are many other people in this world who are less fortunate and who do not enjoy the things that you already have. to divert your attention, you may go to the gym for work out, go to the mall and watch movies, attend a fund raising project or be a volunteer on a house building project for less fortunate people, hang out with your friends that you haven't seen for so long, etc... there's actually so much to do in this world other than to just think of your problem the whole day.
well as for me, what works best is watching my korean and taiwanese drama dvd collection... i know others would find it so boring or so corny, but i don't really care. though the stories sometimes are quite predictable and simple, they have the ability to enlighten/brighten up my mood. most of them are FEEL GOOD dramas... best suited for depressed/tired people or even for a normal person who just wants relaxation.
there is always this "KILIG" factor in this kdramas, which is what i rarely find in american series. you'll have this "KILIG" feeling just by seeing how the characters gaze at each other, the way they converse with each other, the way they hold hands, the way they hug and kiss... really very different from american/mexican series. i don't know if it's just me, but i feel like the emotions are so real, unlike those american series where i can't see any spark.
you might as well try and see for yourself... :)
~ aja! ~ 
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